#brunchtalk: Do You Give Them Another Chance?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 28 April 2024

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Summary

If they flaked, ghosted, or slow-faded away, do you give them another chance if they come back into your life? Join us this week as we chat about why – or why not – someone may deserve a second chance. We're discussing what to look for in their words and actions, how you can hold your ground and share your needs, and why the early stages often reveal a lot – but not always everything. Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. A big thank you to our ad partners: Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateable Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast VIIA: Get 15% off + one free sample of their sleepy Dreams gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Ewey Schue and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:03.0	We're active daters turn dating sociologists.
0:05.6	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.1	Welcome to the dateable podcast. Hey friends, welcome back to Brunch Talk where we dissect your burning dating questions.
0:20.4	We know you all have so many questions to ask and every week we are here for you
0:26.0	We are by your side while you're eating your brunch while your mouths are full
0:30.6	We will give you what we think about your situation.
0:35.0	They truly are endless and the one that we got today, it takes me back because I think we've
0:40.0	all been here before and had this burning question top of it.
0:44.3	And what could that burning question be?
0:46.1	It is, should I give someone a second chance?
0:50.2	And more context is a year ago, I went on a couple of great dates with this guy.
0:56.0	We had a really strong connection and even kissed at the end of the date.
1:00.2	When it came to scheduling the third date, it fizzled out due to both of us getting sick, him traveling, and then rescheduling conflicts.
1:09.0	Recently we reconnected though, and he apologized for dropping the ball and his lack of
1:14.4	communication and we had another great date but then we were supposed to see each
1:19.9	other again he cancelled again due to illness and travel. I really like him, but I'm starting
1:25.8	to question if he's just an unreliable person. Should I give him another chance?
1:32.0	Or is he just really sick?
1:33.9	I don't know.
1:34.5	I know.
1:35.5	Bigger issue if he keeps getting ill.
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