#brunchtalk: How Do You Step Into Your Feminine Energy (Or Is That Total BS)?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 31 March 2024

⏱️ 16 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

If you identify as a woman (or date women!), you've probably heard about why 'feminine energy' is so important to attract a mate. But it's 2024 people, and we're discussing why this is actually quite problematic even though it feels innocent enough. So buckle up as we chat about why this advice is simply outdated, how to embrace a natural style for you that still gives off an interested vibe, and ways we can all start dating in a way that doesn't feel as performative. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Join our Finding Your Person Program! https://www.findingyourperson.com/ Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Last Bottle Wines: Get 10% off your first order with the code DATEABLE at https://www.lastbottlewines.com/ Hinge: Download Hinge and try voice prompts today at https://hinge.co/ Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ VIIA: Get 15% off + one free sample of their sleepy Dreams gummies. (21+) at https://viiahemp.com/ using the code DATEABLE Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateable Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0	Hi I'm Ewey Schue and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:03.0	We're active daters turn dating sociologists.
0:05.6	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.1	Welcome to the dateable podcast. Welcome back everyone for another episode of Brunch Talk where we dissect, analyze,
0:21.5	and beat to death, you're a dating.
0:23.0	Oh my God, you I.
0:24.6	We make them come to life.
0:25.9	I like that.
0:26.9	I like that spin.
0:27.9	But this question is not for that.
0:30.9	So don't worry.
0:32.0	We're going to get to our brunch talk question.
0:33.7	How do I step more into my feminine energy?
0:37.6	And for more context, I've had a lot of masculine energy my whole life as I've navigated difficult situations.
0:46.7	Now I'm ready to let myself be feminine as I prepare to re-enter the dating scene.
0:51.8	How can I embrace and grow this energy?
0:54.8	Like you're watering a plant and growing it somehow. I wish that's how people worked and that's
1:02.1	not how it works.
1:03.7	Personally I don't believe there's a feminine or masculine energy.
1:08.6	We just have different energies and we can gender them or not, I rather not. And for anybody who feels like they have to push themselves into a feminine or
1:18.6	masculine energy it must mean that it's not natural for you. It's not authentic to who you are. That's like telling you to be someone who you aren't.
1:29.5	So I rather we not think about it in a way of like, oh, I need to be more in this energy and think
	...

Transcript will be available on the free plan in -357 days. Upgrade to see the full transcript now.

Previous episode | Next episode

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.