#brunchtalk: Is Their Anger A Problem?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 9 June 2024

⏱️ 21 minutes

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What's the difference between a little road rage and an abusive partner? How do you know what signs end up being a problem later on? Join us for this week's brunch talk as discuss what to do if your partner's anger is making you uncomfortable in any way, how to consider your own triggers and why this may be bothering you, and ways to share your concerns about their activation. Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Ewey Schue and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:03.0	We're active daters turn dating sociologists.
0:05.6	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.1	Welcome to the dateable podcast.
0:27.2	Hey everyone, welcome back to Brunch Talk where we dissect your dating questions to the best of our ability, which is usually good, but it's a good caveat. And we never run out of dating questions because thanks to you all.
0:31.2	We crowd source these questions. Thanks for sending them in. We have a special one today.
0:37.2	And the question is, how do you handle dating someone who has anger issues.
0:43.4	And for Boer info, I've been dating my partner for close to two years and I'm concerned about
0:50.1	his yelling. He typically has loud
0:52.6	outbursts for road rage and often screams at our dogs for
0:56.2	silly stuff. He's never screamed at me directly, but
0:59.7	should I be concerned. Outside of this I find my partner otherwise reasonable help help help indeed
1:07.1	caveat is we are not pros experts in this but what we can speak to is if this is something that's making you
1:17.1	feel uncomfortable it is worth a conversation absolutely you know yourself best and some people may be okay with this, some people may not.
1:27.6	It sounds like you are not okay with this. So it's worth that conversation. I know we say this all the time, like talk to the partner,
1:34.7	talk to the person you're dating,
1:36.5	but this one in particular is like,
1:38.7	we don't know how you're feeling,
1:40.2	but it sure sounds like this is bothering you.
1:42.6	Yeah, I agree with you in the sense of if this is bothering you, if this is something to be concerned with,
1:48.4	especially if you say this person is otherwise very reasonable,
1:52.2	then by all means have a conversation and just say like,
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