#brunchtalk: Should You Be Able To Check Your Partner's Phone?

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5 • 877 Ratings

🗓️ 21 April 2024

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

A debate only this generation would have: should couples be able to check each other's phones freely or is each person entitled to their level of own level of privacy? We're digging into our thoughts as we discuss the motivations for needing to look at your partner's phone in the first place, the benefits and downfalls of giving one another access, and how you can actually discuss with one another what's behind the ask. Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: Blueland Cleaning Supplies: Get 15% off your oder at https://blueland.com/DATEABLE Armoire: Get 50% off your first month of your clothing rental membership, up to $125 off using the code DATEABLE at https://armoire.style/refer/dateable/ Osea Malibu: Get 10% off their skincare from the sea at https://oseamalibu.com and use the code DATEABLE Done: Turn ADHD into your strength with mental health care made easy: https://get.donefirst.com/podcast Badlands Ranch Dog Food: Learn more about how to improve your dog's health at badlandsfood.com/dateable 310 Nutrition: Get 15% off, up to $100 off your first order using the code DATEABLE at https://310nutrition.com/ Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	Hi I'm Yui Shue and I'm Julie Kraftchik.
0:03.0	We're active daters turn dating sociologists.
0:05.6	Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.
0:09.1	Welcome to the dateable podcast. It's time for a brunch talk where we dive into your burning dating
0:20.0	questions and we want to get to the bottom of anything that you're going through that's pressing.
0:25.6	I feel like you AUD to make like a jingle.
0:28.0	Like every time you say like it's time for brunch talk and almost feels time for French talk. I don't know. We'll figure it out. We'll have AI do it. We'll have a different
0:39.4	jingle each time. That could be funny. That would be funny.
0:43.0	We should do an AI generated jingle each time.
0:47.0	Just to see what it comes back with.
0:48.0	If nothing else.
0:49.0	Yeah, it's copyright free, we can use it.
0:51.0	It's fine.
0:52.0	We're good. But this brunch brunch talk we have a question and the
0:55.0	question is should couples be able to freely look at each other's phones who's a
1:00.8	good one and then the person that wrote in said, do you think that you should be able to see your partner's phone without asking for permission or do you think each person in the couple is entitled to a level of privacy that doesn't allow their
1:15.5	partner to ever look at their phone?
1:17.5	I'm thinking back to all the times that I looked at a partner's phone and never found
1:22.4	anything good.
1:23.0	I can guarantee you that.
1:24.5	I do think there needs to be a level of privacy for everybody.
1:29.5	And it's not like secrets you're hiding. It's nice to know that there are some things that are just
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