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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

#brunchtalk: What To Do When You Feel Behind In Dating

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5877 Ratings

🗓️ 5 May 2024

⏱️ 20 minutes

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Summary

What happens when you reach a certain age and realized you haven't been prioritizing dating and relationships as much as maybe you would have liked? How do you "catch up" and get back on track? Join us as we chat about feeling behind in the love department – and what to do about it. We're discussing how to share your story with dates, the reasons past relationship experience ultimately doesn't matter, and why there's no better today than today to get out there (and how to not let fear of rejection get in your way). Got a dating question you need answered? Hit us up at [email protected] Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content about modern dating. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE is available for pre-order now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Meeting People IRL Kickstarter - CLOSES August 31st and get $10 OFF now through then! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dateable-podcast/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi I'm Yui Shue and I'm Julie Kraftchik.

0:03.0

We're active daters turn dating sociologists.

0:05.6

Here to dive into everything modern dating and relationships.

0:09.1

Welcome to the dateable podcast.

0:18.0

Hi everyone, what kind of talk is it today? I think it's a brunch talk.

0:19.0

Brudge, obviously.

0:21.0

Dinner talk doesn't have a ring to it at all. Lunch talk, no. It's brunch talk.

0:25.8

Dinner is more formal, right? I feel brunch is where you dish, where you like really lay it out there.

0:32.4

Especially we do like a girlfriend's brunch.

0:35.2

I would love to observe like a guy's brunch.

0:38.0

Me too.

0:41.0

How do we infiltrate that? Well, how about you all let us know if you go on regular dude

0:46.4

branches? Yeah. What happens at these branches? We like to know because you know as soon as we

0:50.4

join it's a different dynamic. It's a different one.

0:53.6

You gotta just record it, be creepy, send it in.

0:56.8

It doesn't matter what kind of brunches you're at.

1:00.4

You are hopefully talking about dating love relationships human connection and maybe our

1:06.6

question for this episode which is what do you do when you're feeling behind in your love life? And for more context, at 27 I feel

1:17.8

behind in dating. It wasn't until my quarter life crisis that I ever even started dating.

1:24.7

I'm also very rejection avoidant due to earlier experiences in my life.

1:29.8

How do I build confidence to start dating at this age?

1:33.5

I'm terrified of data gaps.

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