Call it what it is with Jessica Kapshaw and Camille Luddington and I Heart Radio

podcast. Well, hello, hello, hello.

And welcome to another episode of Call It Short and Sweet.

What's up?

What's up?

Today we have dedicated the episode to a fan Q&A. The Call it crew have always always

give us the best material and so why not dedicate an episode

to questions that you have that Jessica and I can dive right into. This is where we also remind you that we are unlicensed to advise.

Nothing gives us any sort of special reason why we should be able to answer your questions. But at this point if you've

written in then there must be something that you feel that we get from us and so

we're here to give it. Yeah. All right we're going to start with Sydney who wrote in and said, hi, Camilla and

Jessica.

My boyfriend and I are planning on getting engaged within six months to a year.

I am so excited he is the man of my dreams and I truly think we pair together so well. But we had a

conversation the other night and he told me that I was his third favorite person in

the world behind his mom and sister. I love both of them so much so I'm glad that they're going to be part of my future family, but I am struggling with the thought of being third. I always told myself I would be in a relationship and a marriage where we put each other first and pick each other every day.

And I feel like that 90% of the time with his actions, but him saying that has been stuck in my

head for weeks now.

Do I wait it out until closer to an engagement to say anything, or is it something I bring up now or am I out of line for

wanting to be number one? Thank you guys so much for your advice and for being so

open and honest in these podcasts. I'll tell you the thing is stuck out to me

actually was she feels like 90% of the time his actions show that she's first right and this comment is throwing her a little.

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