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Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Childbirth Nightmares, Public or Private Proposal? (w/ Melissa Hunter)

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Headgum & Nicole Byer

Date, Comedy, Relationship, Single, Raya, Therapy, Dating, Couples, Hookups, Romance, Bumble, Dating Apps, Comedy Interviews, Love, Relationships, Nicole Byer, Health & Fitness, Sex, Advice, Encounters, Tinder, Interview, Sexuality, Podcast, Hookup, Stories, Interviews, Society & Culture

4.815.6K Ratings

🗓️ 11 April 2025

⏱️ 56 minutes

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Summary

Writer Melissa Hunter (Santa Clarita Diet, She-Hulk, Home Economics)  joins Nicole to talk through the messy reality of childbirth - including her 32-hour labor, an unexpected unmedicated birth after her epidural failed, and shitting on the table. They also get into whether proposals should be private or public (including Nicole’s dream proposal), the red flags of dating someone who won’t drop the bits, and the time Nicole got scammed by a hot Instagram dating coach.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is a headgum podcast.

0:05.5

Hey! Did you know you can watch this entire episode right now? Why won't you date me? Why won't you date me?

0:27.4

Please tell me why.

0:37.4

Oh, baby, welcome to another episode of Why Won't You Date Me a podcast for me, Nicole

0:41.0

Weyer, was trying to figure out why I was so single, even though you could come on a table,

0:46.8

let it crisp up and tell me that it is a filling.

0:50.3

My guest today created and starred in the viral web series

0:57.6

Adult Wednesday Adams

0:59.4

She's written for shows like She Hulk, Home Economics,

1:02.7

Santa Clarita Diet, close enough,

1:04.7

and Maya and Morty.

1:06.1

I'm so excited she's here.

1:07.2

It's Melissa Hunter.

1:08.8

Hi!

1:10.1

Hi, hi, hi, hi, hi, hi, hi.

1:11.2

Hi.

1:12.7

How are you?

1:15.0

I'm fine.

1:18.3

I guess this is, will be totally outdated, but it's a really weird and bad week.

1:22.3

This week in America.

1:23.5

Hey, listen.

1:25.0

Bad for some, great for others. So I'm just mostly like disassociating. I get that. How about you? How are you doing? I'm okay. I'm here. I'm thriving. So are you married dating, a single, don't want to say. What's going on? I'm married. How long have you been married, Melissa? Three years.

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