Conflict, Communication, Fixing, Problem Solving - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 491
Relationship School Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.6 • 981 Ratings
🗓️ 19 March 2024
⏱️ 30 minutes
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Summary
Jayson and Ellen discuss conflict, communication, and problem-solving versus understanding. What's the issue with being a conflict-avoidant couple? When is it appropriate to problem-solve and offer advice to a long-term partner? Can excessive understanding become problematic? Tune in to hear Ellen and Jayson offer a few simple strategies that you can use to resolve your communication issues.
Timestamps:
- 1:51 - Avoiding Conflict
- 11:21 - Solving communication problems
- 17:04 - Problem solving vs understanding
- 20:28 - The conflict-repair cycle
- 22:31 - Taking action vs understanding
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| 0:00.0 | they're always trying to figure out how to deal with this kind of quote unquote difficult or sensitive or traumatized person. |
| 0:07.6 | And they're leading with all this understanding and empathy, but they're not actually taking action. Hey Jason Gatiss here. |
| 0:17.0 | Welcome to the Relationship School Podcast. |
| 0:22.0 | This show focuses on human behavior, psychology, and relationships. |
| 0:25.8 | It's for people who are into growth and development. |
| 0:27.7 | It's for people who wrestle with the paradox of self-acceptance and self-mastery. If you want to gain more self-awareness, have a better |
| 0:35.0 | relationship with yourself and more fulfilling relationships with others, this show is |
| 0:39.1 | for you. It's my belief and my experience that your life satisfaction, your health and well-being, and your longevity will be determined by how much confidence you have in your most important relationships, including the one with yourself. |
| 0:52.0 | Welcome back. |
| 0:54.0 | Hello, Ellen. |
| 0:55.0 | Hi, Jason. |
| 0:56.0 | Okay, we've got some issues that couples have, is that right? |
| 1:00.0 | Yeah. |
| 1:01.0 | Some kind of, I don't know, typical. |
| 1:07.0 | Yeah, typical things we observe as we work with couples and humans. |
| 1:12.0 | Yeah, and things that keep I think becoming clearer to me |
| 1:16.8 | inside you know years and years of working with people it's like I still keep |
| 1:22.2 | crystallizing it's like I still keep crystallizing. It's like, oh yeah that, oh yeah that, there's that again. |
| 1:27.0 | Right. So we're going to share some observations and talk about them in hopes that it serves you. |
| 1:34.0 | Lessner. |
| 1:35.0 | Yeah, and sort of helps you steer yourself towards something besides like the status quo |
| 1:43.4 | status quo demise of long-term relationships that we see. |
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