Crash Course: Kids Who Don’t Comply, Listen, or Care About Consequences

Calm Parenting Podcast

Kirk Martin

Education, Social Sciences, Science, Self-improvement, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.8 • 1.1K Ratings

🗓️ 29 November 2024

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Crash Course: Kids Who Don’t Comply, Listen, or Care About Consequences You have kids who don’t always listen, want to do things their way, and don’t care about consequences. What DOES work with these kids? In less than 20 minutes, Kirk shares 10 rapid fire ideas to show you exactly how to get strong-willed kids to be responsible for themselves…when nothing else works. This is a must listen. Share with your spouse and family! Our Black Friday Sale Ends Saturday at 11:59pm. Visit https://celebratecalm.com/black-friday/ to purchase the Get Everything Package at the lowest prices of the year. Get practical strategies that really work with your strong-willed kids. AG1 Every week of November, AG1 will be running a special Black Friday offer for a free gift with your first subscription, in addition to the Welcome Kit with Vitamin D3+K2. So make sure to check out https://drinkag1.com/calm to see what gift you can get this week! HAPPY MAMMOTH It's time to feel like yourself again, Moms! For a limited time, you can get 15% off on your entire first order at https://store.happymammoth.com/ with the code CALM at checkout. SIMPLISAFE This week only, you can get 60% off any new system with a select professional monitoring plan. This is their best offer of the year! Head to https://simplisafe.com/calm. There’s no safe like SimpliSafe. AirDoctor AirDoctor comes with a 30-day money back guarantee so if you don’t love it, just send it back for a refund, minus shipping! Head to https://airdoctorpro.com/ and use promo code CALM and you’ll receive UP TO $300 off air purifiers! OneSkin OneSkin is the world’s first skin longevity company. Get started today with 15% off using code KIRK at https://oneskin.co. AQUATRU WATER PURIFIER AquaTru comes with a 30-day Money-Back Guarantee. My listeners receive 20% OFF any AquaTru purifier. Go to https://www.AquaTru.com and enter code “CALM “ at checkout. MeUndies Kids To get 20% off your first order of MeUndies Kids, plus free shipping, go to https://www.meundies.com/calmpod and enter promo code calmpod. MeUndies—comfort from the outside in. Skylight Frame Get $20 OFF your purchase of a Skylight Frame when you go to https://www.SkylightFrame.com/CALM Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	129 at McDonald's gets you a mini-Orio McFlurry.
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0:24.6	You know what that is.
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0:46.8	Please drink responsibly.
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0:53.1	So you have kids who don't listen all the time.
0:56.0	They don't always do what you want them to do. They want to try to do it their way. They're stove touchers. I understand this is really
1:00.6	frustrating when you have a strong-willed child because the more you push, the more they resist,
1:07.0	the more you lecture, the more they tend to shut down. These are assertive, persistent kids who get a vision of what they want to do in their brains, and then they go to carry it out, and they tend to tune everything else out. And one of the first things we go to is consequences, because that's all we've been taught as parents is, well, I just need to give them a consequence,
1:28.0	and that will change their behavior. But it doesn't work, and I've seen this on Instagram,
1:32.1	and even on Thanksgiving Day, we got email after email about this. So I thought I would record
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