Decoding the Meaning of 'Doing the Work' - Jayson Gaddis & Ellen Boeder - 475
Relationship School Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.6 • 981 Ratings
🗓️ 28 November 2023
⏱️ 27 minutes
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Summary
If you’re in the personal development space, chances are you’ve heard the term 'doing the work' thrown around often, but what does it really mean? Is there a right way to do the work? How can you gauge whether your personal development work is really having an impact? Jayson and Ellen share their insights about what it means to 'do the work' and touch on topics from intimate relationships and family to psychedelics and yoga along the way.
Timestamps:
- 5:14 - What does "doing the work" look like?
- 8:17 - The litmus test for personal growth
- 10:15 - Why intimate partnership is so important for personal development
- 16:25 - Holding more complexity
- 21:12 - Doing the work should have results
- 23:45 - The role of relational context
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| 0:00.0 | people can be on these contemplative and therapeutic processes and really finding out cool things about themselves or having cool experiences and having insights and downloads and all of that and yet nothing's moving and |
| 0:15.3 | how they interact with the people that are most important to them. Hey Jason Gatis here. Welcome to the Relationship School |
| 0:28.2 | podcast. This show focuses on human behavior, psychology, and |
| 0:31.8 | relationships. It's for people who are psychology, and relationships. |
| 0:32.8 | It's for people who are into growth and development. |
| 0:34.8 | It's for people who wrestle with the paradox of self-acceptance |
| 0:38.2 | and self-mastery. |
| 0:40.0 | If you want to gain more self-awareness, |
| 0:41.6 | have a better relationship with yourself and more fulfilling relationships with others, this show is for you. |
| 0:47.0 | It's my belief and my experience that your life satisfaction, your health and well-being and your longevity will be determined by how much |
| 0:54.1 | confidence you have in your most important relationships including the one with |
| 0:58.2 | yourself. Hey, podcast listeners, quick interruption here. |
| 1:03.0 | If you are with an emotionally unavailable partner, or have been, |
| 1:09.0 | and you haven't quite got the lesson yet about you, |
| 1:12.0 | and you want to look in the mirror and you |
| 1:13.6 | want to dig deep because that's what we do here at the relationship school. |
| 1:17.3 | We have reworked one of our courses into a group coaching experience. It's called End the Struggle with Him, Roadmap, and Monthly Group |
| 1:26.1 | Coaching membership. And it's super affordable, $49 a month, and we would love you to come check it out if you still continue to |
| 1:36.0 | attract emotionally unavailable partners if you're like huh what is this about me |
| 1:41.4 | we it's loaded with value. There's live group coaching, there's |
| 1:46.8 | several courses in there, it's worth well over $3,000 this experience. |
| 1:53.2 | And even in there is the letter, commentary |
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