Defiant, Moody Child Won’t Stop & Blames You: 5 Ways to Stop This

Calm Parenting Podcast

Kirk Martin

Education, Social Sciences, Science, Self-improvement, Kids & Family, Parenting

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🗓️ 31 March 2024

⏱️ 22 minutes

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Defiant, Moody Child Won’t Stop & Blames You: 5 Ways to Stop This You have a child who gets moody and disrespectful. You tell her that attitude is not tolerated in your home. She keeps coming at you. You try staying calm, but eventually everyone ends up yelling and you impose consequences. She then blames you for her attitude. How can you stop this vicious cycle? Kirk gives you specific action steps and a script. Learn more at CelebrateCalm.com. This is the final week of our Spring Sale: You get everything we have ever recorded delivered directly to an app on your iPhone, iPad, Android, or computer. Listen anywhere, anytime. You get 35 hours of practical strategies and concrete examples, along with multiple PDF workbooks. Make 2024 different. Click here to learn more and take advantage of our Spring Sale: https://celebratecalm.com/products/ Questions? Email [email protected] and he'll be happy to help out personally. Visit wholelifepet.com/podcast and use promo code CALM to get 25% off your first order. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	So you have a child who gets moody and then disrespectful and you tell her that that attitude is not tolerated in your home
0:07.2	But she keeps coming at you and you try staying calm, but eventually everybody ends up yelling, you impose consequences, and the relationship
0:16.2	gets strained.
0:17.5	And then your child blames you for her attitude.
0:21.8	How can you stop this vicious cycle? That is what we are going to
0:26.6	discuss on today's episode of the Calm Parenting Podcast. So welcome this is
0:29.8	Kirk Martin. You can find us celebrate Calm.com. if you need help reach out to our formerly
0:34.6	moody defiant son K C C A S E Y at celebrate calm dot com and tell us about your
0:40.6	family what are the ages of the kids, what are you struggling with most?
0:43.3	We get together as a family, we discuss it, we reply back to you personally and usually very quickly
0:48.4	with some concrete recommendations.
0:50.1	Why?
0:51.1	Because that's what we do.
0:51.8	So this good mom and dad who emailed us about this
0:54.4	situation were very descriptive of what happens in their home and they wrote when
0:59.6	she gets in these moods she will will blame us, but it is ultimately her initial outward defiance
1:07.4	that starts the train down the track.
1:09.7	And so my first thought was, one, very good for identifying this, mom and dad, it's her initial outward
1:15.3	defiance.
1:16.4	And we're going to learn how to get to the root of the defiance, because if you always
1:20.3	react to outward behavior, whether that's lying, stealing, defiance, you're going to miss
1:27.0	it almost every time you're going to give a consequence for an outward behavior doesn't work.
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