I get frustrated when she'll make herself coffee and leave the creamer out and the little tab that she pulled off of it is there and all these kinds of things.

And it's like, can you just throw it away when you're done?

And, you know, thankfully, we had a good counselor who didn't indulge me in that.

And he's like, what you need to do is just see that as another opportunity to serve.

Welcome to Family Life Today, where we want to help you pursue the relationships that matter most.

I'm Ann Wilson.

And I'm Dave Wilson, and you can find us at familylifetay.com.

This is Family Life Today.

So I've always wanted to say this on Family Life Today.

Today we're going to talk about marital fantasies.

But it's a lot different than it sounds.

You know, you're my ultimate fantasy with everything.

Yeah, that's what I was hoping is.

Well, you've heard some couples in the studio that I'm going to introduce in a minute.

But what we're going to do today is we're going to watch a clip from Married with Benefits

with Brian Goens and Shanti Feldhan who wrote a book called The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Couples,

where she studied the best of the best.

Who have the best marriages in the world and what do

they do? Shanti is amazing at this. She's a Harvard researcher. So all of her material comes from

stats and data and research that she's collected. But if you haven't already been watching

and listening to their podcast, and it's also on

YouTube, we'd really encourage you. You can hear the whole episode when you go to their YouTube

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