The This is 15 minutes of freedom. I'm your host right I know and today I'm sharing an unpopular opinion.

Yes, my friends, today is the day

that's gonna create some controversy.

Maybe, at least it did on social media.

And I want to share how this all came about.

And again, some lessons that I've learned from it.

So inside of Facebook, I'm a part of a few other men's tribes, communities.

And one is Ryan Mitchell's Order of Man. He's been at this game a really long time.

He was an early guest on the podcast, a phenomenal human being.

And he's got a tribe of, gosh, I have to look, but I'll say 50,000 plus men.

Right, men only, all ages. look but I'll say 50,000 plus men.

Men only, all ages, all geographical locations, all income and socioeconomic standards.

It's everybody.

And I happen to be looking at a post that a man shares sometime over the weekend

that basically asks a question

Men that basically asks the question, men question for you, and I'm paraphrasing, I don't know if this is exact. Men question for you, what do you think about using porn and masturbation to save your marriage?

And I see that and I think this guy this guy has messing around right he posted little like the minute I hop on Facebook so I'm the first first comment and if any of you have ever been involved in groups like this, the first comments are one that everybody ends up reading to see if they should comment to.

So boy, I jumped way out on the deep end here.

And so I share very openly that I have never meant, I've never come across, I've never encountered

a man whose relationship was better based off porn and masturbation.

And that I would encourage him to ask himself if he has been doing the things to put him and his wife in the best possible position for success.

Things like pre-planning date nights, like making sure she feels loved honored and appreciated

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