E647 Ask Nick - The Man I Want to Marry Never Wants to Get Married
The Viall Files
Nick Viall
4 • 24.2K Ratings
🗓️ 2 October 2023
⏱️ 98 minutes
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Summary
Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we talk Nick’s butt, Dave & Buster’s, and helicopter parents. We also read a submission from someone who wants to shoot their shot with their neighbor but isn’t sure what to do. We have an extremely in depth discussion on various tactics she could use. We then get to our callers.
Our first caller is dating the man she wants to marry, who never wants to get married. As the child of parents who had a messy divorce, our caller’s partner doesn’t want to repeat mistakes, but our caller is certain marriage is something she needs in a long-term relationship. She’s not sure if one of them will compromise, or if she’ll have to walk away. Our second caller is wondering if she’s self sabotaging her relationship, or if he’s just not her person. She’s only been in this relationship for a month, but has known this person for 6 years, and feels that there is something off. She wants to know if she’s overthinking it, or if it’s something deeper. Our final caller is not sure whether she should make things work with the father of her child, or give up once and for all. She’s not able to support herself and would have to move back home if they broke up, but she doesn’t know if the relationship is salvageable.
“*Cough cough* Kevin Costner’s ex-wife.”
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| 0:00.0 | What's going on, everybody? Welcome back to another episode of the Vow Files |
| 0:19.8 | Asnick Edition. Hope you're all doing lovely. That was an Asnick. What? That sounded like |
| 0:27.6 | Asnick Edition. Asnick Edition. Asnick. Asnick. Asnick. Here it is, Asnick. Yeah, big Asnick. |
| 0:38.7 | I do have a big Asnick. I'm a booty. Really? Who told you? Do you, okay, do you men? |
| 0:49.6 | Do men? Yeah, that's obviously. Do men think about the size of their |
| 0:54.7 | dogs? Is dog ass? Yeah. Yeah. I know my dad does, because he doesn't have one. And I |
| 1:01.2 | would say every man is different. I've always had a handful. Do you grab it frequently? |
| 1:06.8 | Not me. Oh, yeah. I was a track star. He's a track star. I think every guy thinks about |
| 1:19.8 | it like 10 degrees. Would you describe yourself as having an ass, Derek? I don't know. I don't |
| 1:25.0 | know. Do you pain it? Are you doubting my ass or are you just haven't looked? Both. She's |
| 1:32.4 | doubting because she hasn't looked. I think it'd be so much worse if I was like commenting |
| 1:36.9 | on it as if I knew it. That's true. Yeah. I don't know how to be honest. I've been really |
| 1:42.6 | weird if Ali goes. Yeah, he does. Yeah, he does. Is it appropriate? No. Is it appropriate? |
| 1:52.4 | No. Asnik. Asnik. All right. Well, welcome, everybody. Hope you all had a great weekend. |
| 1:59.9 | If it's Monday, if not, you know, thanks for finally showing up. We have a great episode |
| 2:05.0 | for you. Some great collars, some great, we a couple of writer-inners. I do have a question. |
| 2:10.9 | I don't know if this is, maybe it's a new game we can play working title. Is this helicopter |
| 2:18.1 | apparent or is this like appropriate safety? You know what I'm saying? Am I being an |
| 2:24.3 | overbearing potential helicopter parent? Or am I making a good point? That point is we |
| 2:29.4 | went to Dave and Buster's. We were all there for the premiere of Special Forces episode |
| 2:33.2 | two. Congratulations. By the way, thank you. I am a star. No, it's exciting. If you blink, |
| 2:38.9 | you wouldn't see me. That's, but I think that's good because they only wanted to show stuff |
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