E650 Ask Nick - How Do I Save My Relationship After Cheating?
The Viall Files
Nick Viall
4 • 24.2K Ratings
🗓️ 9 October 2023
⏱️ 96 minutes
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Summary
Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. Before getting to our callers, we discuss bed-times and how many hours we need each night to not be crabby. We also read a submission from someone who got a Navy Diver’s number, and needs help crafting a message. We then get to our callers.
Our first caller needs help deciding if she should break up with her boyfriend. The relationship is going very well, and her friends and family love him, but she can’t help but feel like something’s missing. Our second caller’s boyfriend seems to be going through a quarter-life crisis, but she’s not sure if she’s the crisis. After 5 years together, he recently told her he’s not sure if he wants to get married, have children, or be in a relationship at all. She’s not sure if these sentiments are true, or if he’s just aging. Our final caller is wondering how to save his relationship after cheating. His girlfriend recently moved out, forcing him to return home across the country, so he’s wondering if he can salvage his relationship, and how.
“Relationships take f*cking work, man.”
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| 0:00.0 | What's going on everybody welcome back to another episode of the Vowel files ask Nick |
| 0:19.1 | a dish and I'm your host Nick joined by the household of Genevieve Amanda Derrick |
| 0:24.2 | Allie is here as well. They hi, allie. Hi. What's what's going on? What's new? Bobin? |
| 0:31.0 | Bobin? How are you? Fine. I have a question. My voice cracked during that. |
| 0:36.3 | Convincing. Very convincing. What's your question? Oh, I was just going to ask is there |
| 0:42.0 | do you have like a weekend ritual or like something that you tend to do most weekends? |
| 0:45.8 | Sleep in. If you had no responsibility what time do you get up? |
| 0:51.4 | 10. What will you? Well, it depends on it really just depends on what time I go to bed. |
| 0:56.4 | Fair. But because like I don't like I have fucking improv shows at like 10 p.m. on Wednesday |
| 1:01.8 | which is like nobody's chosen time to do that. What time would you choose to go to bed and choose |
| 1:07.2 | to wake up if you had no obligation? No obligations at all. I mean yeah I don't know like on a Friday night |
| 1:14.0 | you know I can go to bed. Oh I see what you mean. I got no plans and I say I have no plans on a |
| 1:19.0 | Saturday morning and I can go to bed when I want to and wake up when I want to. What would that be |
| 1:23.7 | for you? I feel like I would probably try to go to bed before one. Like definitely. I mean if |
| 1:30.4 | it's like if I'm really tired then I'll go to bed at like 11 or something. But yeah I hear you. |
| 1:34.2 | But I think in an ideal world to go to bed at like 12 30 wake up at like 10. 12 30 to 10. Yeah |
| 1:41.3 | there's like fall asleep time and it's like usually like about my boyfriend's house you like kind |
| 1:45.0 | of wake up in the morning. Good night. I have hours of sleep. Yeah because usually I'm like make it |
| 1:49.0 | well it's it's hard to answer without obligations because usually I'm like making up for lost time |
| 1:53.4 | even though sleep experts say you can't do that not in my lived experience. You absolutely can't make |
| 1:58.6 | up for. Well what I mean I think what it's telling me is that if if you could you would sleep for |
| 2:03.4 | nine hours. Oh yeah easy piece. Same with you. I like to go to bed at a reasonable hour. What's |
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