E653 Ask Nick with Eli Rallo - My Situationship Wants Me to Take His Virginity
The Viall Files
Nick Viall
4 • 24.2K Ratings
🗓️ 16 October 2023
⏱️ 87 minutes
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Summary
Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We’re back to answer your burning questions about the world of dating and relationships. This week, we are joined by special guest Eli Rallo for relationship and dating advice. Before getting to our callers, Eli discusses her new book I Didn’t Know I Needed This, which outlines the lifespan of a relationship. She also shares her two favorite dating tips. We then get to our callers.
Our first caller ran into an old friend at a wedding, and isn’t sure if she was reading his cues right, and should try and ask him out. We help her craft a message to send to him. Our second caller’s situationship/coworker asked her to take his virginity, and it went “horrifically.” She has feelings for him, and is wondering how to remedy the awkward situation, and make her feelings known to him. Our final caller’s girlfriend said “I love you” after only a few weeks of dating, and she didn’t say it back. This is her first healthy relationship, so she’s worried she won’t be sure when she’ll know she’s there.
“We love that for you.”
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| 0:00.0 | What's going on everybody welcome back to a new and exciting episode of the Vowel Files |
| 0:19.6 | Ass Nick Edition. |
| 0:20.9 | I'm your host Nick joined by the household of Genevieve and Amanda and our special guest |
| 0:26.5 | Eli Rallo is with us today to help answer some of our caller's burning questions Eli |
| 0:34.1 | how you doing? |
| 0:35.1 | I'm so good how are you? |
| 0:36.5 | Thanks for coming we're excited to have you. |
| 0:38.6 | I'm so excited to be here. |
| 0:39.6 | I'm so excited to be here. |
| 0:40.6 | Another person who's like loves talking about relationships and dating. |
| 0:43.1 | Yes. |
| 0:44.1 | I was actually listening to you I think maybe on GGE I forget what podcast like when I got |
| 0:48.5 | the email from a team like oh you're going to go on this podcast I was listening to you |
| 0:51.9 | and thinking like damn he gives great advice. |
| 0:54.7 | We love to hear that yeah well first of all you have a new book coming out I do and |
| 0:58.9 | the book is called I didn't know I needed this and what is it about what ways you want |
| 1:03.0 | to write it like what was your motivation and I guess like who is the perfect audience |
| 1:07.8 | for this book. |
| 1:08.8 | Sure so it's 14 personal essays takes you through the life cycle of being in a relationship |
| 1:13.5 | from being single to being single again so we get all the different steps. |
| 1:16.7 | I think the motivation was really like I realized especially through being on TikTok and being |
| 1:21.6 | on the internet that so many people have overcomplicated dating so so much and have de-centered |
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