E659 Ask Nick Updates Special Episode - Part 13

The Viall Files

Nick Viall

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4 • 24.2K Ratings

🗓️ 27 October 2023

⏱️ 89 minutes

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Summary

Welcome back to The Viall Files! Today we have another special “where are they now” update show where we give you updates from our past callers to see what’s happened in their situations and relationships since appearing on the show.

We bring on our first caller who was debating shooting her shot with someone who had ghosted her 2 years ago. We had encouraged her to reach out to him when she was in his area again, and find out if her messages were well-received. Our second caller had first called in because she was deciding whether she should break up with her boyfriend or not. We pushed her to talk to him about their compatibility, and find out if they’re still together. Our third caller had originally called in because bl*wjobs were ending her dates. We gave her the advice of taking things slow and being more selfish in dating, and find out how her dating life has progressed since then.

We also have some written updates - Our caller whose best friend was cheating on her boyfriend, our caller who was wondering how to save his relationship after cheating, and our caller who needed help getting her husband to sign their divorce papers.

To catch up on all of these callers original questions please see the show numbers:

Original Episode numbers for callers:

Episode Number: 630 Ask Nick Updates Special Episode - Part 11, (First appeared on Ep616 Going Deeper with JoJo Siwa - Growing Up Famous, Pet Peeves, and Shooting Your Shot)
Episode Number: 650 Ask Nick - How Do I Save My Relationship After Cheating?
Episode Number: 617 Ask Nick Updates Special Episode - Part 10 (First appearance on Ep582 Ask Nick - Blowjobs Are Ending My Dates)

Original Episode numbers for written updates:

Episode Number: 621 Ask Nick - I Think I’m Emotionally Abusive
Episode Number: 650 Ask Nick - How Do I Save My Relationship After Cheating?
Episode Number: 645 Going Deeper with Raven-Symoné and Miranda Maday Plus Special Forces and Travis Talks Taylor

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0:00.0	What's going on, everybody? Welcome back to another new and exciting episode of the Vow Files
0:21.2	Update Special Edition. We got some good updates for you.
0:25.9	Real good ones. We feel good ones. Yeah. Yeah, some triumphs triumphs with endings being
0:34.0	happy beginnings. Yes. I feel like we had one door closed and then another door open. So to speak.
0:40.7	Sure. Yeah. Let's do door open to win them. Yeah. Do we have any writer enters? We want to
0:45.4	kick things off? Any updates? Yeah. Do we remember Chelsea? She was from episode 621 and her
0:52.4	friend was cheating on her boyfriend and she wasn't sure if she could continue to be friends with
0:56.7	this person. Yeah. Yeah. And so we encouraged her to have a conversation with her friend, hold
1:02.8	her accountable and just say, I do not support these decisions you're making. So I was finally able
1:08.9	to talk to her, but it ended up being through text message. She called me out on being distant
1:12.9	with her lately, which I have and I finally confronted her about it and set my boundaries with her
1:17.3	in the way you guys advised me to. She didn't take it well as expected. Basically, this is what she
1:22.2	told me and then she says, I copied it from Snapchat because this is the only way that she messages me
1:27.7	now because she changed the settings to delete immediately after viewing. So her boyfriend doesn't
1:32.8	see what she's talking about when he goes through her phone. Such a messy situation. So she said,
1:38.3	I feel really hurt and betrayed by you pushing me away due to something I'm dealing with.
1:42.2	I thought we were better friends than that. I said, I understand why you feel hurt and I'm sorry
1:46.4	for that. It's just difficult for me to support your behavior and I do not want to be in a
1:49.8	complex to it. I know you're better than the decisions you're making right now and it breaks
1:53.6	my heart that you're going through the situation. I hope things change for you and again,
1:57.6	I cannot support your decisions and it's too much for me to be around while you're making them.
2:01.6	I would love our friendship to take off, but at this time I need to distance myself and I hope
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