How's it going?

Good. My name is Casey. I'm 29 and my question is, should I break up with my boyfriend

because he only wants to have sex on the weekends.

Okay. Is that like a hard and fast rule or is that like something that it's this kind of organically started happening?

I mean, we've been dating for five years and there's gone like on and off fluctuations of the relationship in our sex life.

But he's very like, I guess I wouldn't say it's a rule, but he's made it known that he's disinterested in sex on weekdays.

Okay.

And how serious are you considering breaking up with them over this?

Well, I guess there's been a development since I

wrote in and we kind of did have a discussion where it's basically been ended, but it's kind of

also not been ended at the same time because we're still living together. So I guess kind of part

two of my question was, am I making the right decision? And my plan is to move across the country back home

with my family. Okay. So you guys are, as far as you know, kind of broken up. You live together,

but like you guys at a minimum, acknowledge that there's a problem for you and he didn't do

enough to fight for the relationship, basically?

Correct.

I was kind of like sitting with these feelings,

and then we ended up getting into a huge argument a few weeks back,

and I ended up in that same argument sharing my feelings about this concern as well,

several other concerns that I had in the relationship,

and decided to come to an end, but not immediately because I'll still be staying for a while in the home.

It's his house. And we weren't breaking up because of like immediate reasons. A lot of it included. There's a lot of other things like wanting a family in my future

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