Elle Danger: Stripper Writer!

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Society & Culture

4.3 • 1.6K Ratings

🗓️ 18 August 2020

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Elle Stanger (aka @StripperWriter) is a sex educator, stripper, a writer, a mom, an activist, and social media celebrity… Some of the things she’s written about sex, motherhood, and sex work have changed my life - I’ve been wanting to get her on the @pornhub Podcast for a while now, and I was so excited to interview her. Why is there so much shame around masturbating, when literally everybody does it? How can we better communicate with sex partners? Can shy people be strippers? (Yes.) Is Elle a narc? (LOL NO.) Is there such a thing as sexwork hierarchy? Which is the most fulfilling form of sexwork? Which is the hardest? Is there infighting in activism? In sexwork? Also: in a world where consent has been so confusing, what is the importance of a safe-word, and how can we employ it non-sexually? Also also: why cancel culture is so dangerous.

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0:00.0	Hi everyone. Welcome to the Porn Hub Podcast. This is your host Asa Akira. I don't know why I never ever
0:09.4	mentioned that. Maybe I don't need to, maybe I should, I don't need to maybe I should I don't know anyway our guest today is
0:16.2	El Stanger aka stripper writer she is a sex educator a a stripper, a writer, a mom, an activist, and somewhat of a social media celebrity.
0:30.0	Her Instagram is at stripper Writer and she has an incredible page but that is actually not how I discovered her.
0:39.6	I discovered her through her writing.
0:41.7	Some of the things she's written about, sex, motherhood, and sex work have
0:47.2	changed my life, really, and I've been wanting to get her on the Porn Hub podcast for a while now. So I was super
0:54.7	excited to interview her. We talked about motherhood, sex, sex work, you know, as to people who have been in pretty much every avenue of sex work, we were able to have a really cool conversation about the hierarchy, the interfighting, the issues surrounding consent, and all that good stuff.
1:23.0	So hope you enjoy. So you are a stripper, a sex educator, a writer, a mom, an activist, a social media celebrity.
1:38.0	But you also, yeah, that's a lot of hats to wear, but you also kind of don't do any of those things traditionally.
1:48.2	Have you always been like this super unconventional person or?
1:52.4	I love this intro you're really helping me reframe
1:56.2	myself as I like age gracefully my mid 30s because I'm really no I'm serious I'm just
2:01.3	talking to my therapist about this and I'm like what is my brand you know like who am I like I know what I believe in the whole goal of my
2:09.8	Instagram and ever talking about sex was to kind of reduce shame and to feel feel some kind of
2:19.2	of connection I guess to people who had gone through similar things.
2:23.0	Like I'll jump right off in saying that I remember being a child
2:27.6	and this will loop into parenting later.
2:29.4	I remember being a child and my neighbor girlfriend asked me what does masturbation mean and she was like a year
2:37.1	or two younger than me I was probably like 11 I'd been masturbating since as long as I could
2:41.9	remember to self-sooth.
2:43.4	Like I tell my mom like, I'm going to go read or whatever, but she'd find me humping my
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