Ep. 120: Why Heathens Have Better Sex Than Christians (Paul and Morgan / Girl Defined / Fundie Sex Influencers / Purity Culture / Dating / Relationships / Valentine's Day )

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4.5 • 709 Ratings

🗓️ 13 February 2023

⏱️ 141 minutes

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Summary

On this Valentine's Day special, Sadie and Gavi discuss sex advice from notorious fundie sex influencers Paul & Morgan and Girl Defined. Later, they are joined by sex therapist Liat Fruman to get a qualified professional's take on this advice.

TW: In general we talk about a lot of potentially triggering topics on this show, including but not limited to suicide and mental health, racism, misogyny, PTSD and PTSD symptoms, child abuse, mental, physical, and sexual abuse, and spiritual abuse including guilt, shame, and fear. In most episodes we’ll mention at least a few of these topics, but we try very hard to avoid graphic detail unless it’s relevant to the story we’re telling, and we do our best to give the audience a heads-up before going into detail on any of these topics. In this episode, we are going to be going into a lot of detail about purity culture, modesty culture, which brings along a whole lot of homophobia and misogyny and some racism as well. We’re going to talk about sex-shaming, body-shaming, purity rings, the whole nine yards.

A special note for any listeners who may be asexual, sex-repulsed, minors, or just wanting a heads up on actual explicit content. We are going to be talking about specific bits of sex advice given by these Christian influencers, but we’re going to keep it PG-13 at MOST on the streaming edition, although the Patreon edition might get slightly more blue.

I want to give you an example at the top, just to level-set. The advice we’re going to be talking about is like, “try new things”, “wear something sexy”, “don’t be afraid to use lube”

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0:00.0	Imagine sweeping through green fields, floating five feet above ground, sun on your face as you slide by on track to your destination.
0:11.1	Not a care in the world as you simply lean back and before you know it, you're there.
0:16.7	London to Glasgow from just 48 pounds each way.
0:20.7	Avanti West Coast.
0:22.2	Feel good travel.
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0:28.0	U.K. forward slash plan. Roll rolling river of time, you've healed me in too many days.
0:47.7	No regrets, no confusion, there'll be no pollution.
1:01.5	I'm so thankful I've decided to change my ways Welcome back to the Leaving Eden podcast
1:05.0	We are here Sadie Carpenter, cult expert here
1:09.4	As she is with you every time How you doing today, Sadie Carpenter, cult expert here, as she is with you every time.
1:12.2	How are you doing today, Sadie?
1:13.5	Doing fantastic.
1:15.6	I should say, Sadie, happy Valentine's Day.
1:17.8	Oh, thank you.
1:18.5	Happy Melentine's Day to you as well.
1:20.7	Thank you so much.
1:21.9	See, Valentine's Day is, it's a very special time of year.
1:27.0	It's a time when we are bombarded with not just advertisements and and and a very corporate feeling of what love and what relationships look like, but also very often sexual advertising, sexual content is very
1:46.6	much put front and center. Would you agree with that, Sadie? Yeah, I think it's a time where we
1:53.9	celebrate love, but a lot of people have that conflated with a sexual relationship as well.
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