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Betrayal: Weekly

EP 20 - Carmen Rita Wong

Betrayal: Weekly

iHeartPodcasts and Glass Podcasts

True Crime, Society & Culture, Relationships

3.76.2K Ratings

🗓️ 21 November 2024

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

A deathbed confession altered Carmen’s sense of identity.  But that revelation was just the beginning. Carmen Rita Wong’s memoir Why Didn’t You Tell Me? is available now.

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0:00.0

I wanted her love so bad, and she couldn't love me enough to tell me the truth, even before she died.

0:26.3

I'm Andrea Gunning, and this is Betrayal,

0:29.0

a show about the people we trust the most and the deceptions that change everything.

0:35.4

Carmen Rita Wong grew up in New York in the 70s.

0:38.8

Her earliest memories are of her mom, Lupe.

0:42.2

Lupe was glamorous.

0:45.0

She was always dressed to the nines and the red lipstick.

0:49.8

She, along with my grandmother, my abuela, both from the Dominican Republic, were seamstresses for

0:55.5

Oscar de la Renta, who was Dominican and employed a lot of the Dominican women immigrants

1:00.9

to New York City.

1:02.8

Oscar de Laurenta was one of the most expensive and exclusive designers in the world.

1:08.4

First ladies and movie stars wore his designs. And they dressed up to be seamstresses.

1:14.6

My abuela as well, always in an Oscar suit that she had probably made with her own hands.

1:20.6

Carmen was raised in Harlem, and she's proud of where she came from.

1:25.6

The neighborhood we lived in was mostly Dominican immigrants, Puerto Rican, basically of all

1:33.0

colors.

1:34.1

So for me, going to daycare, being around my cousins, lived across the street, my grandfather's

1:40.5

cleaners was on the corner, and we all just coexisted in a very great supportive way

1:45.9

colorful texture smells just the richness of it all not money but life it's something that even now I look back on with nostalgia.

2:04.3

Carmen's parents were separated.

2:06.4

She lived with her mom and spent the weekends with her dad in Chinatown.

2:11.5

We called him Poppy.

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