4.8 • 707 Ratings
🗓️ 7 October 2020
⏱️ 5 minutes
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Jeremy and Jeff discuss exposing your older kids to younger kids.
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0:00.0 | If a couple comes over with three or four little kids, our kids immediately engage with those |
0:05.3 | little kids. |
0:09.6 | All right, guys, welcome back to Five Minute Fatherhood. |
0:12.3 | So we've talked a lot recently about the importance of exposing your kids to adults. |
0:18.5 | I want to talk for a minute about the importance of exposing your older kids to younger |
0:24.2 | children or babies. Again, creating a culture, an intergenerational culture where your kids |
0:31.1 | feel comfortable and enjoy not just peer relationships, people that are within a year of their age, but they enjoy younger |
0:39.8 | kids, they enjoy older kids, they enjoy adults, they enjoy grandparents. This is such an important |
0:45.1 | thing to cultivate if you're going to build a multi-generational family team. And so I got an |
0:52.7 | email this week from a friend of ours named Celine. |
0:55.7 | She grew up in a traditionally Indian household, and she was writing me about a different topic, |
1:01.8 | but then she had this little PS that I thought was really interesting. |
1:04.7 | I wanted to read it out. |
1:05.4 | Just give a shout to my son, Jackson. |
1:08.0 | Basically, what she wrote was, I remember the first time Jackson met our son, |
1:12.6 | who was just a few months old, and Jackson immediately came over and wanted to hold him, |
1:16.8 | play with him. I'd never seen a non-Indian teenage boy do that before, and I still haven't |
1:21.9 | seen it. I think she said there was another boy there that was his age, and it was not unusual for a teenage boy to give a baby the time of day when his peers are around. |
1:35.3 | So he said, I was recently around teenage boys who understandably were focused on themselves and their peers. And I was reminded of how unusual |
1:45.0 | that first encounter between our son and Jackson was. I want to encourage Jackson to continue |
1:49.9 | being countercultural and nurturing his fathering skills, even at a young age. So I send this to Jackson. |
1:55.0 | This is he, and I would say this is true. Did he love that? Yeah, he did. And I've seen this. This is |
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