You're listening to the Life Coach School Podcast with Brook Kistio episode number 487.

Welcome to the Life Coach School Podcast, where it's all about real clients, real problems, and real coaching.

And now your host, Master Coach Instructor Brook Kistio.

Hey beautiful friends.

Today we're going to talk about a very uplifting, lovely subject called what I'm calling deserved hate.

I just went on a long walk in Chicago and I was talking to my very besties on the phone.

And we were having some great conversations about what it means to be human.

And the human experience and human suffering and human pain.

And I just love these conversations about what it means to be alive.

And sometimes it's very easy to think that everything should be smooth sailing and everything should be lovely.

And we shouldn't have any problems.

And that's just not the case.

So normally when we talk about haters and I've done a couple podcasts on haters and I've talked about haters before.

Talked about being a hater when you're hating on someone for something they've done.

And also for troll haters online that are anonymous, just some bored people trying to hurt other people.

And I've talked about it when it comes to putting yourself out there and being afraid of being hated.

Because you're showing up in the world very big and you will get criticized and you will get hated on.

And I've never really talked about the other side of it, which I'm going to call deserved hate.

And that's what I'm going to talk about today when the hate is something that you've earned basically.

It's something that where you have made a mistake or you have failed at something that affected someone.

Or you've said something hurtful about or to someone else.

Or when you've just gotten it completely wrong.

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