Episode 143: Get Used to Disappointment | A Conversation with Dr. Julie Hanks

At Last She Said It

Cynthia Winward

Religion & Spirituality, Feminism, Motherhood, Ldswomen, Spirituality, Lds, Thechurchofjesuschristoflatterdaysaints, Mormonwomen, Religion, Marriage, Mormon, Faith

5 • 900 Ratings

🗓️ 6 June 2023

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

“Your job as an adult is to disappoint people.” So said Dr. Julie Hanks the first time she was on the ALSSI podcast. In Episode 143, she joins Cynthia and Susan to talk more about actually applying that statement in our lives and relationships. Why might it be hard for Latter-day Saint women to believe our choices don’t have to please everyone—or even anyone—else?

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0:00.0	Yeah, so that question, Susan, is like the tension of relationships. You just
0:10.8	summarized it, right? It's not all about me and what I want,
0:15.0	and it's not all about keeping someone else happy and what they want.
0:18.0	So it's navigating that place in between.
0:22.0	And the line is is when we go into self-betrail in order to keep someone
0:28.8	else happy.
0:29.8	Mm, okay. Okay. Hi, I'm Susan Hinckley.
0:37.0	And I'm Cynthia Wynnward.
0:39.0	And this is at last she said it.
0:41.0	We are women of faith discussing complicated things and the title of
0:45.0	today's episode is Get Used to Disappointment.
0:50.1	Get Used to Disappointment Cynthia. But we're not disappointed in today's episode
0:54.8	because we've got Dr. Julie Hanks with us.
0:58.0	Hi, Julie.
0:59.1	Hello, so great to be back with both of you.
1:02.8	We are delighted to have you.
1:04.8	We have really been looking forward to this.
1:06.8	And you're back because of something you said
1:09.4	on the first episode that we recorded with you, you know, right at the beginning of our of our
1:14.1	podcast that is coming back to haunt you now.
1:17.6	You're going to have to say a lot more about that for us.
1:20.5	So I'm ready, I'm ready for you. We're glad you're willing to do that. For our maybe five
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