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Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody whose partner has fallen for an only

fans creator.

But before we get into it, we are going to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is

that Sierra and I are not licensed mental health

practitioners. Yes we are not we are not professionals we are not

trained in any of this so please take our advice as you see fit we're only

here to offer our humble musings

so hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the

incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love.

All right let's get into today's letter.

So today's letter comes from Jealous,

question mark, babe, who's pronounce her, she, her,

who is writing from Confusion City.

Dear Sam and Sierra, my partner, he, him 30, and I, she, her, 29, have been together nine years,

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