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Ladies and gentlemen, good morning. Welcome back. I'm going to open right up with this.

Today's episode is not a feel-good episode. This is a heavy topic. It's a dark topic,

and it's real. It is more pervasive than I think a lot of people would care to even imagine.

We're going to be talking about abuse, specifically sexual abuse of a young man.

But having said that, what Seth, my guest today is Seth G Gell what he has been able to do with that

and how he has been able to shave his life through what happened to him I think is an incredible

thing so like I said the guest today is Seth Gell he wrote this book Strength Beyond the Shadows

now Seth himself is 82nd Airborne Combat Vet,

worked in the construction business, an ultramarathon runner. He's an author, obviously, speaker now,

BJJ, practitioner. Amazing things. I am not even going to attempt to describe what he has lived through because he gets into it in a level of detail that might make some listeners uncomfortable.

My recommendation to you is to stay the course, to listen, to learn.

And I honestly think that in somebody telling a story like this, there are warning signs

for those of us out there who would step in if they could figure out a way to stop this from

happening, whether it's just a conversation, asking somebody the right question,

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