Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra DeMolder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who's waiting for her partner to grow up enough to have kids.

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed

mental health practitioners. Oh no, we are definitely not. We are not professionals. We are not trained in any of this.

So please take our advice as you see fit. We're only here to offer our humble musings. So hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding, but mostly confusing experience that is love.

But it's Monday, so we're going to start with the check-in topic before we dive into today's

letter.

The check-in topic is...

It's mostly just me wanting to, like, process some thoughts with Sam that I've been having.

It's not anything, like, profound or filled with advice. So just, like, It's not anything like profound or filled with advice.

So just like sit here and muse with us or gossip with us.

So last, I think it was last week, my blind date was worst ex ever, a short documentary

series on Netflix, just about like these great, these wild stories of exes doing just the worst thing.

Worst. Oh my God.

Like, like framing people for crimes, you know, extreme domestic violence, you know, whatever.

Kidnapping.

It was just like.

It was bonkers and awful.

Huge sugar warning.

But that was just like a wild little ride I went on while preparing holiday dinner.

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