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Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship advice

you don't want to hear. My name is

Sierra de Mulder. And I'm Sam Blackwell, and today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who

isn't feeling super sexual with their partner after years of sleeping around. But before we begin,

we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed

mental health practitioners. No, we are not. We are also not sex therapists or therapists

of any kind. So please take our advice as you see fit. We are only here to offer our humble

musings. So hopefully we've said some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly

rewarding, but mostly confusing experience that is love. All right, today's letter is coming to us

from X slut, whose pronouns are they, today's letter is coming to us from X slut, whose pronouns

are they, them, who is writing to us from The Void. I'm in a frustrating predicament and really don't

know where to go from here. I used to be someone who slept around a lot and valued sex in my

life in a way that at times wasn't super healthy. This led to some

trauma that I've worked through a lot and am continued to do the work for. This isn't about that,

but I am curious if it's affecting my current predicament. Spoiler alert, it probably is,

at least a little.

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