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Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Episode 542: He's Benefiting From You Hating Yourself

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.81.2K Ratings

🗓️ 14 February 2025

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like she doesn't deserve love...and apparently, neither does her boyfriend. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:32.4

Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship advice you

0:36.9

don't want to hear.

0:37.9

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

0:39.9

And I'm Sam Blacklaw.

0:40.8

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who doesn't feel like she deserves love.

0:44.5

And apparently neither does her partner.

0:47.1

But before we begin, we just want to give you our social generals morning, which is that

0:52.2

Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

0:55.1

I'm so mad at this partner in this letter. I know. I'm so glad you brought that energy early.

1:00.3

Here we go. Yeah, we are not professionals. We're not trained in any of this. We're just as petty as all of you are.

1:05.9

So please take our advice as you see fit. We're only here to offer our humble musings. So hopefully

1:10.9

shut some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding but

1:14.9

mostly confusing experience that is love abroad in Australia today.

1:20.9

That's right. That is right. All right. Today's letter is coming to us from

1:24.4

Scared and Alone, whose pronouns are she-her, who is writing to us from

1:28.1

Lost Down Under, Dear Sam and Sierra, I've been listening to you every week for years,

1:34.3

and I'm so grateful to hear your musings and words of wisdoms. I hope you can hear me out.

1:39.6

We can. Yeah, definitely. Yep, we're here. We're hearing you. We're all hearing you out. Yeah, it's whether or not we answer you.

1:47.6

I'm a straight, cis, 30-year-old woman who came to Australia on a working holiday last year from the U.S. about eight months after getting out of a long-term relationship that left me in heartbreak.

1:58.3

I decided to try dating again when I arrived in Australia, inadvertently ending

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