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Heartbreak and all the relationship advice you don't want to hear. My name is Sierra de Molder. And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who has forgiven their partner, but

still wonders if he's secretly betraying them. But before we begin, we just want to give

you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that Sierra and I are not licensed mental

health practitioners. No, we are not. We are not any of that in any pronunciation, you know.

Yeah, absolutely.

Yeah, we are not professionals.

We are not trained in any of this.

So please take our advice as you see fit in your life,

preferably as a supplement to other, like, professional resources.

We are only here to offer our humble musings,

hopefully shed some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding but

mostly confusing experience that is love.

Let's dive into today's letter.

It is coming to us hot off the press from Sad Cowgirl, whose pronouns are she and they,

who is writing to us from The Truth Is Out There, USA, which makes me want to rewatch X-Files.

Dear Sam and Sierra, I can't believe that after years of listening, I'm finally writing a letter,

I, she, they in her 30s, and my partner,

he, him in his 30s, have been together for about 10 years now. And things are going really

beautifully. We took things very slowly in the beginning, which ended up being so good for our

friendship as it blossomed into the really wonderful relationship we have now. He is patient,

...