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Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship advice

you don't want to hear. My name is

Sierra de Mulder. And I'm Sam Blackwell. And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody

whose partner is a wonderful husband, but a difficult co-parent. But before we begin, we just want

to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that

Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners. No, we are not. We are not professionals.

We are not trained in any of this. So please take our advice as you see fit. Only one of us is a parent.

True. Barely. No, fully.

Yeah, well, it doesn't feel like that sometimes.

But anyway, please take our advice as you see fit.

We're only here to offer our humble amusing, still if we've got some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding but mostly confusing experience that is love.

All right.

Today's letter is coming to us from happy wife, unhappy mom, whose name I love for reasons we will unpack in a minute.

Whose pronouns are she, her, who is writing to us from a state of disbelief.

Dear Sam and Sierra, love you both and all the letter writers before me. Big thank you.

Here's my Picaloo, which I love, Picculu. It's a great word. Yeah. I love my husband as a husband,

but I don't love him as a co-parent. My husband and I've been together for four years. We've

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