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Welcome to Just Break Up, the podcast about love, heartbreak, and all the relationship

advice you don't want to hear.

My name is Sierra de Mulder.

And I'm Sam Blackwell.

And today we're going to answer a letter from somebody who is interested in being the pursuer instead of the pursued.

But before we begin, we just want to give you our Surgeon General's warning, which is that

Sierra and I are not licensed mental health practitioners.

No, we are not

professionals. We are not trained in any of this. Yeah, we don't know what we're doing.

Clearly. So please take our advice as you see fit. We're only here to offer our humble musings.

We've got some understanding and maybe some laughs about the incredibly rewarding, but mostly confusing experience that is love.

All right.

Let's get into today's letter.

So today's letter comes from Cold Fish, whose pronouns are she-her, who is writing

from single town.

Hi, Sam and Sierra.

I've been listening to your podcast since nearly the beginning and appreciate you so much.

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