Okay, so the way it works is ideally two cards like that and you get to see them.

You must have shown them to me. I don't get to see them. Right, you mustn't show them to me. I don't get to see yours and you don't get to see mine.

Okay, so you now ready? I'm ready to beat you in poker. I can see your card.

Oops.

It all started a few weeks into the school year.

When my daughter came home one day and told me about a girl in her fifth grade class.

I spent a lot of time with her.

There are a lot of really awesome activities together, gotten very close.

Yeah.

Kind of had like a BFF relationship.

She said she planned to tell this new friend that she was transgender.

And I just really trust her.

She's not a gossip person at all.

She's not gossipy.

No. And she'd even given the friend a

heads up. So there's some girls that's cool that are gossipy? Yeah and I don't

want them knowing. You're not going to tell them. She told her new friend, I have a

secret. Because when you you gossip be if you can

spread one secret you can spread all the secrets and I'm going to tell you in a month I

think that's really true when we have a playdaid.

You've got to think of these things as something you really want and don't want to give up. Is she ready for this? What? Has she read this right? No, something valuable like ice creams or something.

Have I? Okay. When she was younger, it was simpler. Okay, which hand is the best hand now?

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