Hi, my name is John Kim and I'm a therapist who went through his own

rebirth. I share my feelings and revelations. I believe in casual or clinical and

with you instead of at you. I come unrehearsed on purpose because self-help

doesn't have to be so complicated.

Hey real quick, before we get to today's episode, I want to remind you to check out my new book Single on Purpose,

Part Memoir from all my singlehood journeys, but also real life stories from clients.

I think you will find it entertaining and also helpful, not just if you're single single but also if you're in a relationship

because this book is not an anti-relationship book it's a pro-relationship with yourself.

Connect to yourself first check out single-on-purpose.

It is time to give single Hood a cape because it's been vilified for so long.

Imagine if one day you woke up and you lost your logic, like how many lose their vision or their hearing what if you

lost your logic which prevented you from being in your head and also only believing what you can see.

As you know that when you lose one sense like let's say if you lost your vision all your

other senses hyphen right if you lost your, you would focus more on what you feel.

You would focus more on intuition.

You would sharpen your radar when it comes to things like energy and the flow of life.

And I really think that our logic is what bogs us down and when I say logic I mean

our thoughts everything in between our ears and it prevents us from living so

what it does is it puts us into time machines and we are

always obsessing about the future dwelling about the past and it puts us into a

subtle panic state and I think that when we are in that state it's really

almost impossible to hit flow. I talk a lot about flow. One of the things that Bruce Lee said, which is one of my favorite quotes and it's really simple, is to be like water.

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