Hello, hello everybody. Welcome back to an episode of Fluently Fixed where we fix your life. No strings attached. It's going to be perfectly fixed. I am reporting to you from foot rub city. And I just have to share this because I feel so decadent working at my little desk as my feet are getting pampered. Okay. Back in New York, I dated this guy who was like really into having

his feet rubbed. We're going to move past it. Not by me, just like he had one of these foot rubbed machines.

And then also we would always go and get like our feet rubbed at places. Anyway, whatever. Okay.

We're moving past it. But it inspired me this week. I wanted like a little treat because my bunions have been out of sorts.

Why am I doing this? Anyway, the point is, if you want to check it out, get yourself a foot

massager to rub those dogs as you are working from home. Mine was like 80 bucks. I got it on Amazon.

I'll link it or put it on your Christmas list. It also heats up your feet, which always

get cold somehow in the winter. Oh my God. Like, I feel like a king right now. All right. We're going to get

into the questions here. We've got, you know what, I think I'm going to do some of these in a

little bit of a different order than I actually laid them out. We've got four questions here

about friendship, dating, online school, and something else. So we're going to start from the bottom,

actually. See how that goes. Number one, somebody said, hey Shannon, you recently did an episode about

how to make friends, but a lot of the tips relied on already have connections in the area.

What about a situation where you literally know nobody? And then they did

the grimace emoji. Yes, yes, yes. Okay, let's get into this. I spent some time thinking about this for you,

and I have four different ideas of what I would do. We're going to start with the most obvious.

BFF. Everybody talks about it, right? Like Bumble BFF, blah, blah, blah. I've used it before.

It feels a little bit cringe using it, but let me give you my tips for how to best use Bumble BFF.

Number one, you can't treat it like a date. It feels like a date, and I wish that they would, like,

change aspects of it because it feels so much like you're trying to, to like date a friend. But I think this sets us up for failure because after

one date, if there's not a perfect spark, you're like, oh my God, that person isn't my best

friend. And I did a little inventory of most of my friends like here in Denver. There's one friend

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