It's always the psychology that is holding you back.

You don't get the life you have, you get the life you focus on.

Don't miss that.

He's a global speaker and bodybuilder.

Ladies and gentlemen, Nick Santon Astaso.

For some reason, I feel like you were born and then you just went on the stage,

but for most of your high school days, up until you were 20,

you were unhappy with yourself. How did that change? Yeah, how did it change? I remember

coming home one day, and I sat both my parents down and I said, listen, I want to become a wrestler.

And the first thing that my mom said was absolutely not. You're going to hit your arm, your bone's

going to come through your skin. What are you going to do then?

And I looked at them and I said, we need to cut my arm off.

That's a savage move, man.

That's how much pain I was in, that I was willing to do whatever it takes to get out of the fire and into a cooler place. Wrestling shifted my identity and that led me to becoming a bodybuilder, a prankster, a speaker,

but it all started with a kid who hated himself and wasn't going to take his life and would do anything to be loved.

What are you willing to give up for your dreams? I hope it's not a limb like me, but what are those limiting beliefs that you need to let go?

That you need to cut off.

There's never an easy time to make a tough decision.

We all know the things that don't belong in our lives, but we're not brave enough to rip the damn band-aid off.

The only bad decision is not making a decision.

All of us are one piece of information or one new belief away from a whole different

life. If I do this, will I die? And if the answer is no, it's fabricated fear stopping you from

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