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🗓️ 8 April 2025
⏱️ 89 minutes
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Psychiatrist Dr. Eric Bender joins us to dive into the psychology behind anxiety, narcissism, and our complicated relationship with social media. From decoding emotional blockages—like why some of us struggle to cry—to understanding how mental health presents differently in men and women, Dr. Bender provides insightful answers rooted in clinical expertise. We explore the fine line between self-love and narcissism, examine how genetics might influence personality disorders, and uncover what’s truly happening in our brains when we form obsessions and phobias.
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0:00.0 | The following podcast is a dear media production. |
0:03.0 | Hey, Tism Talk. How do we feel about this spoon? |
0:05.6 | OCD is, you're uncomfortable. |
0:07.6 | OCPD, you make other people uncomfortable. |
0:10.1 | Can narcissism overall be genetic? |
0:12.6 | On the ADHD side, how does it generally show itself differently in men and women? |
0:17.2 | I think one of the most common things that can really hurt a couple is when someone says, |
0:20.3 | I'm going to go. men and women. I think one of the most common things that can really hurt a couple is when someone says, Hi guys, welcome back to the show. Joining us today, we have Dr. Eric Bender, a triple board certified |
0:37.1 | psychiatrist with a psychotherapy practice based in San Francisco and a feature host of GQ's The Breakdown, a digital show discussing mental health depictions in film and TV. Welcome to the show. |
0:49.3 | Thanks so much for having me. It's great to be here. We're so excited. And the right over here, we kind of got a little bit of information about you, and I think I'm learning more about you as a person. And you have more |
0:57.5 | depth to you in and outside of medical than I would have ever imagined. But can you give us, like, an |
1:00.9 | overview of, like, how you got into the profession you are today and what that looks like for you. I grew up in South Jersey. I always start there because I feel like I need to defend New Jersey. |
1:12.6 | It's not always depicted on TV the best way. |
1:17.0 | So I grew up in South Jersey and my family was very much a service-oriented family. |
1:20.1 | So at a young age, I learned, okay, we can try to help others. |
1:21.7 | And that's a good thing to do. |
1:24.7 | So over the years, I was teaching, I was tutoring. |
1:29.1 | And after college, I did a volunteer teaching year and really enjoyed that. |
1:31.3 | But I wanted to find a different way to help people. |
1:32.9 | And so then I did some social work. |
1:36.6 | And I was working with the elderly Italian population in San Francisco. |
1:37.1 | Wow. I used to know Italian. |
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