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Join Up Dots - Business Coaching Made Easy (With A Bit Of Life Coaching Too)

David Ralph of Join Up Dots

Interview, Motivation, Online, Businessinterview, Education, Businesscoaching, Entrepreneur, Lifestyle, Income, Business

51.1K Ratings

🗓️ 2 April 2017

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

Today’s guest joining us on the Join Up Dots podcast is a man who has been on a terrible journey to get to where he is today. At least in my perspective it looks that way, but perhaps in classic Join Up Dots fashion perhaps it was all these things that were needed to be experienced to make him who he is now. As he says in his own words ” As a small boy I had been violently and repeatedly raped from the age of three to around eight years old. Which left me feeling completely empty. So full of shame, it was incredibly difficult for me to feel safe or trust anybody at all. In fact, to deal with this trauma, my brain almost split into multiple personalities so that I could detach and protect myself when I was being seriously abused. As you might imagine, I turned to drugs and alcohol to mask the pain, trying drugs as early as seven years old.” By his late teens and early 20’s, it had gotten so bad that he was in and out of jails, institutions, halfway houses and he ended up homeless, and living on the streets. He was failing at everything, his entire life was a mess and after all he’d been through, he had every reason to hate the world. But he finally realized if he didn’t change, he was going to die. This is when he developed a simple mindset shift that changed everything. He realized that for a long time it was his mindset that had been the biggest problem he faced. In that one moment, he changed his very identity, and what happened next was incredible. And that is where we will begin today’s episode, and this is going to be a great one, as today’s guy has since seen incredible success, and is literally changing the world everyday. So does he see that the things he spends his days doing were always in him, or was it because of his history that he found the skills that he loves sharing? And does he feel that the mindset people have is the number one reason why so many keep themselves small? Well lets find out as we bring onto the show to start joining up dots with the one and only Mr Rob Scott. Show Highlights During the show we discussed such weighty topics with Rob Scott such as: Why hitting rock bottom in your life can quite often be classed as a huge gift in your life. The madness of the human race and why we are fixed on fighting against ourselves instead of making the world as perfect as we can. Why Rob loves treating life as a game to allow the mistakes to happen and the creativity to flood in. How to find the purpose within the passion. How to develop a life that lights you up but also makes you feel good everyday too. And lastly……. Why suffering is a choice that we make, whereby pain is something we have to endure. It’s your choice which one you embrace.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Yes, hello there and welcome to today's episode of Weekend Rewind. Yes, this is when we put our hands back into the join up dots vaults,

0:09.4

swirl it around a bit and find an episode that maybe has got lost in the midst of time.

0:16.0

And this is in response to the amount of requests we get from people who say, David, with all the episodes

0:21.8

you've released, where should we start? Well, it's very hard

0:25.2

to find a place, so we're just going to randomly pick one, and this is today's episode.

0:30.0

Enjoy.

0:31.0

When we're young, we have an amazing... Enjoy.

0:33.0

When we're young, we have an amazing positive outlook about how great life is going to be.

0:38.0

But somewhere along the line, we forget to dream and end up settling.

0:41.0

Join Up Dotts features amazing people who refuse to give up

0:45.0

and chose to go after their dreams.

0:48.0

This is your blueprint for greatness.

0:50.0

So here's your host.

0:51.0

Live from the back of his garden in the UK David Ralph

0:57.0

Hello there everybody yes David Ralph join up darts it is funny when I start recording I never know the first thing that I'm going to say until that intro kicks in.

1:06.0

And sometimes I feel like bursting into song. And so I might do it one day, I might give you a big burst of the, I don't know, the know the classic Duran song or whatever's going

1:14.6

through my mind and maybe I can get today's guest duetting with me I'm gonna ask

1:19.8

him later to see if he's up for the challenge because he is a man that the mindset is amazing and he is so

1:25.8

positive on a daily basis which is testament to him because his journey has been well

1:31.1

it's been a terrible journey really to get to where he is today at least in my

1:35.1

perspective it looks that way but perhaps in classic join-up dots fashion perhaps it was

1:39.6

all these things that were needed to be experienced to make him who he is now.

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