How do I tell my kids that they were conceived with fertility treatments using donor sperm and that their dad is not their biological father?

Ah, I'm going to sit with your 21-year-old one day, and they're going to say, if they lied about this, then they probably lied about everything else.

What in the world's going on? This is John with the Dr. John Deloney's show.

I hope you're doing well. It's been a rough week, if I'm being honest with you. There's lots of going on, personal life, friends and family. And just, um, just know, uh, this show is about real people going through real stuff. And I'm not immune to it either. And so just know that I'm in it with you. And I'm a dad trying to do the next right thing.

I'm a husband trying to figure out how to do that well.

And I'm a son and a brother and a sister and a grand kid.

And I'm just trying to do those stuff right.

And it's hard, man.

It's messy out there.

And I think that's the origin of the show is always dreaming that I had someone I could sit with.

And sometimes I did. Sometimes I didn't.

And that's my commitment to you guys. I'll be here. I know a lot of you are struggling with stuff and

there's nobody to call. And that's what this shows about. Your mental and emotional health,

your relationships, your friends going through hard stuff, family stuff, whatever you got going on that's my promise give me a buzz one 844 693 3291 if you're a thousand

years old that calls toll free if you don't know what the words toll free mean that means you're

probably born this century um or go to john deloney dot com slash ask a s k Kelly do you remember when

we used to have to have a long distance card to call anybody that wasn't in our area code?

Oh my gosh, I had not thought of that in forever, but I, yeah.

Like when I went to college, my freshman year, I had a calling card memorized, just a number memorized,

so I could punch in 16 digits to then call a friend.

When I moved here from Texas, my mom got me a calling card so I could call home.

So you youngsters, listen, if the number had a different area code, you had to pay by the minute to talk to them, which meant they had to be a smoke show, right?

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