How to build self-love for men. I was having a conversation with a client and we're talking

about self-love. It was something that he was lacking. Everyone's situation is different. So if you're

interested in working with my team of coaches and I, you can click the link in the description

and learn more about that. Now, if you don't love yourself, then there isn't anything else for

anyone else to love. Because you're simply a figment of who you are you're living someone

else's life you're being inauthentic you're not upholding and owning your your boundaries your

personal power so when you have self-love others can feel it you give off this great vibe and

energy about you that attracts others into your life.

Self love is attractive. Self love is sexy. Self love is what is lacking in men today.

A basic definition of self-love is having a high regard for your own happiness and well-being.

Showing up to your own needs and not sacrificing your needs in order to please others. You can think of self-love

as the absence of destructive habits, beliefs, and behaviors, because it is simply letting

go of that which does not serve you, that allows you to show up to life more fully.

The big problem with self-love for men is the way that they go about achieving it, which is

seeking external validation to measure their worth and status in society. So looking to others to validate themselves, external validation.

Now, this is very dangerous because that's a variable, whether or not other people are going to

validate you or love you because you can't control other people. And if that is how you're measuring your worth, your level of love

with yourself is looking to others, then you are for sure going down a path of disappointment

and possibly pain and suffering. And you can see how this can cause men to be weak and needy at

times when that validation or that love is being taken away from that man.

Because then he's going to chase it.

He's going to, oh my gosh, you're taking away the validation.

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