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How To Handle Your Demons | Richard Schwartz

10% Happier with Dan Harris

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Dan Harris, Health & Fitness, Mindfulness, Dharma, Mental Health, Meditation

4.612.2K Ratings

🗓️ 31 March 2025

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Summary

Make peace with the difficult parts of your personality.

 

Dr. Richard Schwartz is a contemporary psychotherapist, PhD in marriage and family therapy. He founded the Internal Family Systems Model (IFS) therapy system and has authored many books, most recently: The Internal Family Systems Workbook

 

In this episode we talk about:

  • What Internal Family Systems (IFS) is
  • The relationship between buddhism and IFS
  • How to make peace with our parts without a therapist in the room 
  • Dan volunteers as a guinea pig to show what it’s like to work with your parts
  • The definition of love
  • The link between IFS and psychedelics

 

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0:00.0

It's the 10% Happier Podcast. I'm Dan Harris.

0:18.8

Hello, everybody. How we doing? I have long been fascinated by the notion of demons, the hobgoblins that we all have knocking around in our heads, neurotic patterns that recur in often toxic and destructive ways. I actually went so far as to look into the history of this notion. It turns out it's quite ancient.

0:38.8

The idea that we have an interior cast of characters, a fractious intracranial committee.

0:44.7

It can be found in both ancient spirituality and also in modern psychology.

0:49.4

The Hindus referred to our mental dramatist persona as avatars. The Greeks called them daimans, so did the Christians,

0:57.5

although with a different spelling. Fast forward several centuries, and you have Sigmund Freud,

1:01.9

the father of modern psychology, who divided the psyche into the id, the ego, and the super ego.

1:07.0

Even more recently, contemporary psychologists often now embrace the so-called modular

1:13.0

model of mind, which holds that we have all of these various modes, anger, jealousy, generosity,

1:19.3

etc., that compete for salience in our consciousness, like tiles in a magic eight ball.

1:26.0

Okay, so this is clearly an idea that has stood the test of time, but what do you do about it?

1:30.7

How do you deal with your demons?

1:33.5

In recent years, I have become quite interested in something called internal family systems or IFS.

1:39.4

It's a kind of psychotherapy where you give your inner characters, which IFS people called parts.

1:47.0

So you give your parts names and then you create relationships with them.

1:51.7

For me, this concept has been massively helpful.

1:54.8

And so today on the show, we've got the guy who invented IFS, Richard Schwartz or Dick Schwartz.

2:00.2

He's got a new book out called the Internal Family

2:02.5

Systems Workbook, which is designed to help anybody do this therapy, even if you don't have

2:07.8

access to a trained IFS therapist. In this conversation, we talk about what exactly IFS is, the

2:14.3

relationship between Buddhism and IFS, how to make peace with your parts, even without a therapist in the room.

2:21.5

I then volunteer as a guinea pig to show what it's like to work with your parts, which is a little bit awkward, but I'm doing it for you because I love you.

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