Do I have any other people pleasers in the house who are just struggling with fear of man?

This is something that I am currently working through and I want to talk about it.

Hello, hello, ladies and gents, and welcome to this week's episode of the Baut and beloved podcast.

As always, it's your girl, Kirby Kelly Kelly back at it again with another episode and this

week I actually want to talk about something that I've been ruminating on that I've just

been meditating on and a topic that has just come up in so many conversations

I've had recently about people pleasing, about fear of man.

And I know that this is something that a lot of people struggle with and I am one of them okay like I wish I could say that I'm completely over this that I don't care what anybody has to say I think that

there's like a healthy level of caring about how people perceive you especially

if you are not walking in a certain way right like if you're living a crazy life and you're mean to everybody and you're horrible to everybody,

then it's like, okay, people are probably gonna say some things and maybe you need to glean from that,

right? Like, really analyze yourself with what some of these people are saying, all right?

But I'm talking to those of us today who just hyper fixate on this

specific person needs to like me and you just can't get over this idea of

well what are the comments going to say and what are all these people going to think about me?

There's an unhealthy level of that that I see in myself if I'm being completely

like vulnerable and transparent with y'all and I see this in a lot of

other people and this morning as I was doing the day that I'm recording this I

had my women's Bible study group call and I was like is anybody else struggling with this thing because this is something that I just know that I need freedom from and that I need to

Continuously surrender to the Lord and everybody in that group was like yep yep I relate and we talked about it for like two hours

about what that looks like and oddly enough last week when I was preaching at Zayo Church down in Austin, one of the leaders on the team there had a prophetic word for me.

And it was really cool because they didn't know who I was, they didn't know what I was gonna be preaching on,

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