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Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG

How To Recognize Victim Blaming – Jenna’s Story

Betrayal Trauma Recovery - BTR.ORG

Anne Blythe, M.Ed.

Education, Sexuality, Relationships, Mental Health, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.61.4K Ratings

🗓️ 30 July 2024

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

Victim blaming is rampant in the abuse and betrayal community. When others blame you for HIS choices, you are harmed. BTR can help.

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0:00.0

Welcome to Betrayal Trauma Recovery, BTR.org. I'm Anne. We've opened up some new group session times that work for Australians and also for women in the UK.

0:11.0

Go to BTR.org slash group to see if the group sessions will work for you. I'm sure you remember what it was like when you were searching for help, maybe for your husband, hoping to

0:21.0

find the right program or therapist. That's why I started podcasting, because I supported my husband

0:26.9

through seven years of pornography addiction recovery, and not one therapist during that time told me I was

0:33.1

experiencing emotional and psychological abuse and sexual coercion. I didn't want any other woman on the planet to be in the dark.

0:40.9

If you're like the majority of my listeners,

0:42.9

you're experiencing the type of abuse that's invisible and difficult to wrap your head around.

0:47.4

Your husband is lying to you, using porn or having affairs or some other type of emotional

0:52.5

and psychological abuse, and you're getting the same bad advice about how and psychological abuse, and you're getting the

0:54.9

same bad advice about how to improve communication or your relationship. If you need support from

1:01.3

women who totally understand, our coaches can help you sort through this. We'd love to see you

1:07.4

in a group session today. If this podcast is helpful to you and you wish you'd

1:12.6

found it sooner, one simple anonymous way to help spread the word is to click, follow, or

1:17.2

subscribe on the Betrayal Trauma Recovery podcast. Every five-star rating helps make this podcast more

1:22.7

visible and will help save other women from getting the wrong kind of help, like a couple program

1:28.3

that will make this type of abuse worse. Your support means I can continue sharing this

1:33.3

life-changing information with women throughout the world for free. Scroll to the bottom of any

1:39.5

page on BTR.org and click on Support the podcast. Thank you. I couldn't do this without you.

1:46.7

I have Jenna on today's episode. She's a member of our community and she follows us on social

1:51.6

media. We have accounts on Instagram at bTR.org underscore. We're on Facebook. You can see our

1:58.5

page if you search betrayal, trauma, recovery. We're also on YouTube at Betrayal Trauma Recovery and TikTok at BTR.org. So Jenna has been seeing a lot of misogynistic advice that's actually really common and people don't realize that it's misogynistic. She's not seeing it on our social media accounts, of course, but other therapists

2:19.1

or so-called experts, also from family and friends. So she contacted me because she wanted to talk

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