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Hey guys, welcome back to We Met It,

Ack Me. It is a bonus episode week.

And I wanted to make this one a solo because I did a bunch of research for you on all of the best

TikTok dating advice and compiled it all. And I'm going to share it with you today.

So I'm very excited about this. Before I get into it, I'm going to give you a little recap of

what I've been up to. I went to an influencer event and you guys have heard me talk about influencer

events before and how they just don't make me feel good. So I know what you're thinking. Why the

fuck are you still going to these events? That's a great question. This one in particular,

in particular, they gifted me a very beautiful dress. So obviously, I'm going to go to the event

because I love the brand. The brand has nothing to do with why the influencer event is awful.

The influencer event is awful because of the people. I'm not sitting around saying every person

who has a following sucks because that's not true at all. All I'm saying is these events feel

like everyone's just like pitted against each other and no one actually wants to

talk to one another. And it's more about like, did I get the shot? Is the photographer

taking photos of me? Do they? Does anyone here care about me? It's like, it's like when you

try to sneak into, this is like, so niche and no one can relate to this. I can't even relate to

this. But it's like if you try to sneak into like an Oscar party as a normal person. You're there

and you're excited to be there, but it's like, nobody cares about you. You're not an Oscar

nominee. And for some reason, that is just how I imagine that anyone feels when they go to

these influencer events. And I'm curious if other people feel the same way. I mean, obviously,

I had one friend there and it was so nice to see her. But for the most part, and then I also had

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