You're just there to watch and enjoy but you're not going to, you know, some guys get involved and join in,

some like me like to sit and watch, you may join in occasionally or whatnot, but the ultimate experience is to watch her's lives. I'm Joe Sanigato. I'm Greg Dybeck.

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Today we're speaking to a man who reached out the subject of his email is I'm

addicted to watching my spouse with other men.

So we're going to learn all about this,

and we've got the guest on the line.

Thank you so much for being on today.

Thank you for having me.

Of course.

Can you remember the first time you began to realize that you had this interest of seeing

the person that you're with be with other men?

Yeah, it started back when I was with my ex-wife

about 14 years ago,

and we were married for 8 and a half years years and a relationship started off normal as any other relationship, but about probably five months into it, this is, you know, before we got married, is when I found out that she had a huge promiscuous

background. And so some stuff kind of bothered me, but as time went on I got over, it got like, you know, us you know whatever so that I think that kind of lit the flame a little bit so as a relationship went on you know after we started having sex and everything going out or were established that were together,

the idea came up through some just I guess we started off as a joke just, you know,

joking around it with the whole swingers lifestyle thing and so we're from there. It started from there because we tried it out. We tried the whole swingers thing a couple times and we know, it was like,

all right, cool, something tried it was fun and you know we just left it alone then as time

went on I want to say about the following year so eight months later you know it

kind of it came back up again and we decided to take it a little step further where I would pick guys

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