90% of the time you're talking to another guy.

90% of the time I'm jerking off.

It's usually I'm either on a chat room, chat moves another dude or bro, or, you know,

work through like Mike.

Just talk.

Welcome back to other people's lives. I'm Joe Sanagato.

I'm Greg Dybeck.

For anyone out there that would like to be a guest on our show, don't hesitate to reach out to us.

Our email is OPL podcast at gmail.com.

Today, we're going to be learning about the Bader Bro community.

If you're not familiar with what that is,

it is a subculture of men that embraces the act of mutual and communal masturbation,

but not necessarily just for gay men. A lot of men who identify us straight have also contributed to the growing community and claim that edging and masturbating with other men provides a sense of brotherhood and friendship.

So we've got a guest on the line who is part of this community and we are going to learn all about it.

So thank you so much for being on today.

I don't know, no problem, guys. I'm glad to be on it.

Yeah, of course. So can you, you know, someone with personal experience within this community,

can you give us your definition and tell us how you first even became aware that this community

existed? You know, I think you summed it up. That was actually a pretty good opening right there,

introduction. How I knew it existed, man. i think like many other men you know you're

online kind of looking for something and um i actually found this website and that it was

dedicated to just masturbation and other guys on it talking about it uh sharing you know stories or

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