Hey Waffle gang, I do hope you are well. Happy Christmas Eve. Today we have a collection of stories, a compilation, if you like of older stories, just as you're doing your Christmas Eve preparations. I'm probably going to be busy over the next few days. So I wanted to give you something as, you know, some of you like to listen to stuff in the background and I thought it'd be nice to do something like that over the Christmas period. So just a huge thank you for being here, wishing you a wonderful day ahead

of you and let's get started. Now, today's first story is from Am I the Asshole Here? Subreddit from

Substantial Fox 4386 and says, Am I the Asshole here for telling a friend that my husband

can't be cheating on me?

And she's just projecting.

For context, I 31 female had been with my husband Jay, 34 male, for 10 years.

We met through mutual friends, began dating shortly after, and became engaged after being together

for about two years.

We aren't legally married yet, as we both agreed we wanted an all-out wedding and to travel for

our honeymoon, but that is expensive and we wanted to prioritize spending our money on things like

our house, our vehicles, medical and so on. We bought each other matching rings that we wear as if we are married,

referred to each other as husband and wife, and presenters married socially. We just haven't

actually had a wedding. Our families understand this and since we are both children of divorce,

our parents were fine with us not wanting to get married, since their opinion of marriage

was somewhat skewed,

to put it politely. Most of our friends also don't comment on a lack of being officially

married, as they either don't care, agree with our logic that there are more important things

to spend money on, or rather sort of people who think the point of a legal marriage isn't

as necessary as it has been in the past.

Then there's Trisha, 28 female. I met Trisha through an old job and we got along really well.

We enjoyed the same music, food and had similar opinions on things like movies, books and clothes.

Trisha is a lovely person and I do genuinely enjoy a friendship, but she occasionally goes through

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