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Culture Apothecary with Alex Clark

“I Was Called A Nazi For Choosing Homemaking Over Girl Bossing.” - Alena Pettitt

Culture Apothecary with Alex Clark

Turning Point USA

True Crime, Health & Fitness

59.5K Ratings

🗓️ 26 May 2023

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

Imagine choosing to leave the workforce because you want to pursue homemaking… Then the media brands you a “white supremacist.” This happened to British blogger and etiquette expert Alena Pettitt, creator of “The Darling Academy.” In this across-the-pond chat, Alex asks Alena what it was like to be attacked in the national media for what should be a very non-controversial choice & all the burning etiquette questions! Learn to be more ladylike with your actions AND to be brave when it counts.

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0:00.0

Did you know that outside of America praising things like family values, home making, and

0:18.8

good old-fashioned manners could get you written up by major publications like the BBC

0:24.7

and the sun and accused of being a Nazi? Think about that for a second. This happened to my

0:31.9

guest today. She lives in England and is the author of Ladies Like Us where she documents how she

0:37.6

learned to love her feminine identity and leave feminism in the workforce. Her second book,

0:43.8

English Atticate, was released in the spring of 2019, which is basically a modern field guide

0:48.9

to good manners and family life with a time-honored spin. And the way that I found her was

0:54.4

through her gorgeous blog called The Darling Academy, which focuses on things like etiquette. Well,

1:01.0

in January 2020, she was slammed in the media for being a traditional wife in pretty much every

1:09.1

major news publication you can think of. People across Europe couldn't believe that there was a woman

1:14.8

that existed who thought submitting to her husband was a good thing, who chose family over having a

1:21.2

career. You know, she must have been some kind of white supremacist, they thought. Through that,

1:27.5

the apron clad army was born. Women in Europe and all over the world related to my guest because

1:34.1

they were tired of being told that women were only worth anything if they acted like men. In a

1:40.4

continuation of our Mays for the Mom series, I'm very excited to host Housewife, mother, author,

1:46.2

etiquette expert and Brit, Elena Pettit of The Darling Academy on The Spillover. And PS,

1:52.6

speaking of The Mays for the Mom series, make sure you listen to this whole episode because I have

1:58.4

an announcement at the end. Elena, you are an etiquette expert. You created The Darling Academy. What is

2:08.9

that? And then how do you define the word etiquette? Okay. Well, I've always been interested in

2:16.4

etiquette. As I was young, it's very strange. I was like, we're a child who, you know, would

2:22.4

be interested in the way that you set a table and the way that you treated people. And as I was

2:27.9

growing up, I realized, I was looking more into etiquette. I was realizing that everything out there

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