Is There Such a Thing as Too Much Conflict? - Jayson And Ellen - 366
Relationship School Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.6 • 981 Ratings
🗓️ 27 October 2021
⏱️ 14 minutes
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Conflict is almost always a growth opportunity, and you’re going to experience it in every relationship. But is it possible to have too much conflict in your relationship? If so, how do you know you’ve reached that point—and what can you do about it? Check out this week’s episode, where Ellen and I give our perspectives on the subject.
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| 0:00.0 | Really, whenever both people want to get to a better place and want to help each other do better, they do. So, All right, Ellen Bader back in the house. What's up? It's good to be here. |
| 0:30.4 | Yeah, let's do this. Ellen, we have a question from someone on YouTube. Yes. Is there such a thing as too much conflict? |
| 0:38.0 | It's a good question. Yeah. I like that. Yeah. Yeah. What's your take, like first hit? |
| 0:45.2 | Uh, yeah. |
| 0:46.2 | Yeah, me too. |
| 0:47.0 | Yeah, I think so. |
| 0:47.6 | I'm like, yeah, there is. |
| 0:49.0 | Such a thing. |
| 0:50.4 | Too much conflict is a sign that you haven't yet figured out how to work through conflict effectively. |
| 0:55.3 | It's the first place I go. |
| 0:57.3 | Mm-hmm is people that don't learn and where there's not a mutual buy-in of learning might have my struggle to work |
| 1:07.6 | through conflict more because they are they're just relying on their past experience and just kind of winging it. |
| 1:16.4 | Yeah. So that that could lead to that situation could lead to too much conflict. |
| 1:20.9 | There's more of course. Right. Because you can be doing |
| 1:23.4 | coaching and still have too much conflict. Totally, yeah. That would be my the first place |
| 1:27.8 | I like that. What about you? Yeah, no I like that because it addresses that |
| 1:32.3 | they're not actually getting back to a good place. |
| 1:36.5 | Yeah, you know, which I call zero. |
| 1:38.3 | Which you call zero in your book. |
| 1:40.1 | They're not getting back to zero and so potentially they're just it's just |
| 1:46.3 | conflicts are building you know they're never getting back to good and okay and |
| 1:50.0 | resolving something and getting completion and then having a clean slate and then navigating the next conflict it's like they're navigating |
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