Welcome to Confidently Insecure the podcast, we're absolutely sure we, I don't think we're ever going to be honest, I packed the mic

that Kelsey gave me, but I didn't pack the cord I needed to make it work. And this is actually

iconic because it's the first time I've ever made a mistake. So we're all kind of experiencing

that together. And I think we're going to get through it as like a team. Are you okay? Like are you like how's your shame?

You know, I am shaken.

I haven't felt shame since I started taking Zoloft.

So that's kind of like a foreign feeling to me.

I understand why other people might be ashamed of this.

But I really, I like, I like myself too much to feel that

um a motherfucker man bitch

and honestly I kind of like

seeing you back in the closet

personally because I'm homophobic now

shade uh wait

why now why of all times

now uh I don't know I'm just trying to like go with what the rest of the world seems to be putting out.

You're going to go full white woman and like reject like your queer, queer self.

Could you imagine the career pivot I would take just full sending it to the right.

Like what if I just said like fuck it all.

Kelsey, here's the problem.

You could I, if you, if I didn't know you, I would look at you and be like, oh, this girl might have a cross necklace and like a pumpkin patch picture.

And like, you know what I mean? You look ultra. You look like a Christian, you look like a trad wife.

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